tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post7599705977401604369..comments2023-08-25T06:12:51.221-04:00Comments on Big City Dad: Death in the FamilyBig City Dadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10026342162175331927noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post-43452220221287627582010-01-12T21:17:00.982-05:002010-01-12T21:17:00.982-05:00so sorry for her loss! and agree with those above....so sorry for her loss! and agree with those above..good for you for being there in a healthy way to support her!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post-42518748224987084632010-01-12T15:50:37.097-05:002010-01-12T15:50:37.097-05:00A lovely tribute. And says much about you as well....A lovely tribute. And says much about you as well.BigLittleWolfhttp://dailyplateofcrazy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post-55785562510166683892010-01-12T15:12:26.430-05:002010-01-12T15:12:26.430-05:00Sorry to hear that.
Sounds like your ex hasn'...Sorry to hear that. <br />Sounds like your ex hasn't had things easy. Kudo's to you for being supportive!!Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13068212251106675700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post-80217010359899586602010-01-12T15:01:16.687-05:002010-01-12T15:01:16.687-05:00You're right T, she really did. A lot of it I...You're right T, she really did. A lot of it I knew going in but much of it came out after we were married. It certainly helped me sympathize and be more understanding while we were married. Once it came to Miss M, however, it was hard to ignore and I had to start making some tough decisions. Unfortunately she's not willing to work on how her childhood affects her in adulthood, so anytime she feels "threatened," which is almost all the time, she fights, self destructs, and runs away. It's impossible to have a relationship with someone like that. Almost like trying to tame a wild horse with no rope or fence. I truly believe she will be a better parent on her own. It takes the "static" out of her life and lets her feel safe and just focus on M while she's there. Let's hope I'm right.Big City Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10026342162175331927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post-47665923273383209992010-01-12T14:00:21.659-05:002010-01-12T14:00:21.659-05:00Wow. It sounds like your ex came from a tough back...Wow. It sounds like your ex came from a tough background. Perhaps that helps you to stay compassionate with her, no matter the obstacles you've faced while being in a relationship with her thus far.<br /><br />Hope she can bounce back and be grateful for him.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7635390275830964616.post-41394906752231640162010-01-12T12:26:33.349-05:002010-01-12T12:26:33.349-05:00My heart goes out to his family.
My "grandp...My heart goes out to his family. <br /><br />My "grandpa" isn't my biological grandpa, he is my step-grandpa. But he is definitely better than the biological one ever was to me.Senoritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13075972193214414769noreply@blogger.com